Feeling somewhat frustrated on Tuesday afternoon trying to make my way through a very busy City Centre in hail, rain and shine (this is Spring in Ireland lads) I felt the familiar twins of a cyst twisting on my ovary, pinching me, building pressure and taking my very breath away. I can be as stubborn as a mule at times so I won't given and sit down when I feel that pain although this could also be due to the fact that I would consider myself to have a lot of inner strength (I'm the year of the Ox, might have something to do with it?). I did however pull my snood up over my nose, take some deep calming breaths and did my best not to publicly break down crying. Would have been mildly embarrassing. This was the first incident the boyfriend has actually witnessed and to give him the credit he's due he didn't freak or overly fuss. It can be incredibly difficult for people to get that balance just right but I think he managed it ok. I got through the initial waves a pain and spasms and it wasn't until later that evening that the cyst finally burst. I am prone to fluid-filled cysts and have been to A&E a few times because of them.
(If you have any signs of symptoms of cysts you should present to your Doctor of Hospital)
I get these quite regularly and some are worse than others but it's amazing how much pain we can actually handle. So, when I stumbled upon this graphic during the week I found it incredibly apt and I just thought it sums up alot of the time how women say to me they feel.
We'd love to say "up yours" to Endo, to our uterus, to our tubes, ovaries, wombs, colons, appendices and any other part that aches and gives us terribly unbearable pain. This should be put on a t-shirt. It's eye-catching enough to get people talking anyway.
On Monday I began taking Cyklokapron. It's something I do not like to rely on or have to use but it's time as I've been suffering with menorrhagia again. That and Primolut have become the only two "solutions" for me. According to my Specialist they need to be as conservative as possible with their approach. They must try to preserve my fertility and apparently there are only so many times they can "rotate" the ovaries.
Everytime I attend the hospital I see a different member of the team with a different viewpoint, a trying to make a name for themselves. When you're eighteen they want to operate and pump you full of drugs and hormones and damn the long term effects but ten years later when your chart is one of the biggest the have, when nothing's worked for you, when even the specialist has said "I dont know what to do with you" you feel like you have become a nuisance to them. You're now that black mark on their record.
Should it be this way? Of course not! But how does one person make that change?
By saying;
Stay strong my Sister's. Love you ladies XxxxX
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