I always find that March can drum up a lot of thoughts and questions about Endometriosis that I sometimes may have on the back burner. I've been thinking lately of eighteen year old me and how at the time I fully believed in modern medicine and my Doctor's plan that I would be "symptom free" by age twenty five. It was such a lovely idea at the time and I wanted so much to believe in it that I know for me personally it's why I committed to every single surgery and treatment without much thought to the long term effects it would have on me both physically and mentally.
To a certain extent I was prepared by my Mum for the strong possibility I had Endo as I was displaying similar symptoms to those she hasd. Plus with my Aunt also having been diagnosed and we're almost sure my Grandmother (currently in the process of having her medical notes released to us) had Endo also there us a very strong genetic link's in my family.
I was extremely lucky to have the full support of my Mum when I was diagnosed but when there were days I felt that I was putting too much on her I turned to my Endo Sister's. These are women from all walks of life, age and severity. They are supportive women who you can freely talk to via forums or social media sites.
We will talk about Endo, something good, bad, funny or sad that's happening in our lives and they are an extension of your support network.
It's always easier to communicate with someone who is or has gone through what you are or might be going through. I have always felt accepted by my Endo Sister's and they rally around you when you're having a bad day.
Most of these wonderful, beautiful souls I will never meet. But they should know that each one has touched my life and for that I am grateful. In a time where we are still trying to get people to understand what Endometriosis is I feel blessed to not only have my extremely supportive family but also these women who do feel more like sister's than strangers. Because we share a bond. One that cannot be broken. One that was forged for us. One that I am very appreciative of.
I found this picture on Google(below) and thought it was very apt for young girls/women who are just coming to terms with their diagnosis. It's not all doom and gloom and you always have your Endo Sister's to talk to. Stay strong.
