Family Support

I have mentioned before in my posts how important I feel it is to have support from your family while going through the mind blowing, body ripping, emotionally draining fight that can be Endometriosis.
Now I say "family" but this dynamic can come in all shapes and forms. You don't need to be blood related to be family.

Family to me are the people who love you unconditionally but will put you up on your bull without qualms. They are the ones who will comfort you and laugh wildly with you at inappropriate things. They never judge you, but accept you for who you are and you likewise them.

For me, my family are the ones who I can be 100% open with. I'm not afraid of who I am with them. My illness is not a seen as a weakness but when I have bad days there us no guilt there. I guess it's acceptance of who I am, entirely. My quirky sense of humour, shyness, choice language and intense passion for Rugby are all parts that join up to make me the person I am and to not have to answer for that is to feel safe and wanted.

It makes going through this battle with my body more bearable. When I feel as if the pain will never end and like pieces of me are literally being torn apart. When I'm burning up or passing out or my legs refuse to hold me anymore because all of me energy is focused on getting past this, getting through and for me avoiding the hospital because I am sick and tired of the "routine", knowing I have the love and understanding of my family, my supporters, the people I would trust with my life really does make all the difference for me.

Even if you only have one person that you feel this way about. It's one person who completely understands you and accepts you for you and that is priceless.