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I decide that I need to get out though and push through the pain. Secured with my painkillers in my bag, my remedy I have been taking which is of more use than most pills I've been prescribed I go to visit my Mum and have a lovely afternoon with her. My pain is mainly centred on my left side, around my left ovary. It's the more active spot and there are times I would love to have a camera to hand to see what's actually going on. I know, you're thinking that I should go and have a lap done but it's not really that simple in my situation. From what I've been told they (Doctor's) can only roatate the ovaries so much before they become damaged plus with stage IV they know it's going to just grow back so they are only willing to operate if I want to conceive straight away.
More and more I have begun to establish my own faith. I trust in my belief's and when I'm at my worst I'm finding out more and more that that's what's getting me through. To know that it wont always be this way, that there are good days and bad and to know that I have to love and understanding of my family and friends is something I need to show more apprecaition for. Recently I got so bogged down in my own thoughts. I allowed my fears and old issues to overwhelm me and instead of talking I tried to shut the world out and "fix" myself. When you have a chronic illness you feel as if you are always giving out or moaning that there is something wrong with you and then on top of that for your mental health to suffer well let's just say I became consumed in sorting myself out and making myself a better person that to the people on the outside it seemed as if I was trying to cut them out of my life.
As a human I know I'll make mistakes and learning that it's ok but not to hurt people on the way. I have no problem in apologising for my actions and the things I have said and done that have affected certain relationships. I will just try my best each day and keep talking so my thoughts don't get out of control again. Dealing with this is one thing. I know it's never going to go away but I need to make the best out of my situation.
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Today I am having a very bad flare up. I've my study materials beside me as well as my copy of "Human Chain" by Seamus Heaney. I'm not going to let this pain win. I collapsed while cleansing my spare room with Frankinscence but a slight graze on my hand is nothing to worry about. I will not take this lying down. I will however respect my limitations when I'm in this amount of pain and trust me I'm not likely to climb a ladder or do any heavy lifting today. But there are things I can do. I can stay positive. This is only temporary. I can enjoy my book, study and write. It's all about perspective and faith. I will light my candles and cast my spells and that too shall bring me comfort.
One day I hope I will find a solution, a compromise where I have a quality of life, where I don't have so many bad days, where my body feels like my own again and where my dreams can be put into action. Until that day comes I will keep my faith.
Hope you lovely ladies are all keeping well.
XxxX
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